I’ve been with this girl for nearly 4 years this spring. I love her a lot. Too much I think. When we first got together, I was straight out of college. Wild, had a great social life, lots of friends, lots of social stuff going on. Well, She was a few years older than me, I was 25-She was 30. She had 2 kids, literally no social life. We met, started dating, she always complained about my social life and my job taking so much of my time. Well here we are, 4 years down the road, I gave up my Job as office manager at a communications company, quit smoking for her, quit drinking, took a lower paying job that pays half so that I could have more time for her and her kids, gave up 99% of my friends literally. And now she suddenly starts treating me like garbage. She used to call me constantly, always accusing me of cheating, she was so clingy. Now that I’m working a 30hr a week job, getting half a much, with no friends, suddenly it’s like she hates me now. I sacrificed so much.. She acts like she
She’s pushed you that far, why should she stop being controlling now. Make a stand, or make a move.
rookiewriter | Feb 28, 2011
Go get her a box of Kotex and ice cream. leave her alone and a few days she will purr like a good kitty!
Poopsie Mellish | Feb 28, 2011
Don’t worry about figuring it out. Just leave her. Now, i mean. No time for excuses! She’s using you as a way to raise her kids because of the money you make!
And she didn’t just start treating you really mean, she was mean when she accused of cheating when you weren’t, and made you sacrifice all that.
mistielovespurple | Feb 28, 2011
you need to make a preemptive break up.. tell her its done. see how she reacts
crxprophet | Feb 28, 2011
She needs space to realize what you mean to her because she is starting to take you for granted. and she won’t realize how much you mean if you keep being available to her. I am not saying just leave her for good just leave her alone for a while but if it doesn’t work out find a girl who you can have your own family with
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Scorpyo Freeze | Feb 28, 2011
Looks like you got had! You’ve changed so much, she probably feels like you’re not the man she fell in love with. You made a bad move by dropping everyone for her. Now look whats happening.
If you feel like she has less respect for you, then it could get worse. She pretty much made you the way she wanted and you fell for it. Terrible thing. Now, you’re at a loss. Let me tell you something about women who choose younger guys… it’s because they know they can manipulate them. Are you ready
RoRo Resiness | Feb 28, 2011
discuss your feelings about these issues with her. let her know that how she treats you bothers you. only hearing your half of the story, it’s difficult see the whole picture. it sounds as though you have sacrificed a lot. she may or may not be responsive to you telling her how you. depending upon her response you have your own choices to make. however, for heath reasons I will encourage you not to resume activities like smoking. of course drinking in moderation is important too, if you like to
wagonsurfer | Feb 28, 2011
She might be cheating on you.
lisaraye | Feb 28, 2011
tell ya what i have learned marraige works better when your not around relationships is better when u gone she misses you if ur there she cant i say dont call her for a few days be to your self and watch her flip out when u see her tell her well u was treating me like crap so i stepped back some
she will apologize
Tpnoid | Feb 28, 2011
Move on now! She has someone else- the btch. Be thankful you didn’t marry her. She manipulated you to satisfy her needs, didn’t support a future with you and she doesn’t love you. Take it from a woman whos been there. When you read this, drop her like a hot potato immediately,go out on a date and get married to someone who loves you.
mertyce g | Feb 28, 2011
no offense jj but we all do stupid things but with all the single girls around why you let yourself be manipulated by a loser like her with 2 kids?
NEVER put any girl before your career, before your life, and friends, she isn’t worth it.
if any woman tries to change you that means she doesn’t love you.
now look at yourself, earning half the money, lost most of your friends.
she castrated you, most likely she’s a lib, a man hater.
learn to be a man, and don’t settle
redlioness | Feb 28, 2011
So about four months ago, I started seeing this guy. Let’s call him Joe. The first time we went out, we really hit it off and surprisingly became great friends. We talk about everything and he understands me more than anyone (besides my family) and he’s become the most caring person in my life. About a month ago we became intimate with each other for the very first time. I didn’t think it was possible but we became even closer than before. He lives about two hours away from me but we always manage to spend a lot of time together. My job as a dance coach allows me to travel often at night and his job allows him to travel weekends. Last night,Joe and I had a very deep talk, in which he expressed his feelings to take things to another level. He wants me to spend spring break with him and his family at his home. It will be the longest amount of time we’ve ever spent together consecutively. I was so excited for this because I think that it will give me an opportunity to know him even better
where is the madre of his two children?
you better not be the girl he is having an affair with
Dax White | Feb 28, 2011
You’re young and stupid. Once you mature and have grown up you will realize.
Ghost | Feb 28, 2011
maybe you should stop to think about why he is 43 and alone. his children won’t like that you’re only 2 years older than them, and if you don’t think he would see you as wife material, why waste time?
the advice guru | Feb 28, 2011
Its really depends do you love him a lot or would you rather find someone your own age.Ive been married for 4 years im 26 and he is 41.I loved him even though my parents hated the fact.His family is supportive and i couldn’t be more happy with anyone else than him.
starangel951 | Feb 28, 2011
I went to see an eye doctor on saturday and wanted to wear the contact lens.He gave me the trial period for a week. I have been wearing it for the whole day on saturday and monday morning for 1 hr. The problem is i can see far distance very clear, but it gives me a hard time whenever i start to read things that close to me. so basically I am experiencing hard time to read the things near me. I also feeling dizzy. Additionally, i am seeing a small white thing when I was using the computer this morning. Is this normal for the first time contact lens user?
My second question is I do get allergy when Spring is here. My eyes will get red. Can i still wear the contact lens? I am afraid of getting infected.
I started wearing contacts last year. From my experience, that is not normal. I was able to see perfect close and far. Also, I never saw any dots.
As far as allergies go, the contacts will cause a bit of a problem because the allergies make you want to rub your eyes, but I don’t remember it being a big deal for me. Good luck
Joe | Feb 28, 2011
You should only have worn the contacts the first day up to four hours, and you can work up from there. It’s possible you’re experiencing eye strain from wearing them too much too soon.
Having allergies won’t cause an eye infection, as long as you take care of your contacts as directed.
BeachBum | Feb 28, 2011
01.03.11
Jefferson City, MO (AP)– More than 8,000 anglers are expected to turn out for the opening day of trout fishing in Missouri.
Gov. Jay Nixon is expected to be at Bennett Spring State Park near Lebanon for trout fishing’s opening day Tuesday.
Other hot spots on March 1 are Roaring River State Park, where a couple thousand trout anglers are expected. The day is so significant there that it’s a no-school day in nearby Cassville.
The Springfield News-Leader reports that the first day of trout season also will be observed at Montauk State Park near Licking and at Meramec Spring near St. James, a privately owned park with a trout hatchery managed by the Missouri Department of Conservation.
The department estimates the weekday opener overall will attract around 8,400 anglers.
Information from: Springfield News-Leader,